Monday, February 8, 2016

Wedding vs. Marriage

Today's topic for #LoveBlog is marriage because it's apparently National Marriage Week. Seems fitting with Valentine's Day coming up. Since the topic today is marriage, I thought I'd take a moment to discuss wedding and marriage in a post.

A wedding has guests. A marriage is a private affair.

A wedding may have 100+ people involved. A marriage is between two people.

A wedding is full of formalities and scripts. A marriage is messy and unscripted.

A wedding can take months to plan. A marriage changes with time.

A wedding is filled with everyone looking their best. A marriage is filled with bed hair and make up free moments.

A wedding is captured perfectly on film. A marriage can never be caught on film.

A wedding lasts one day. A marriage can last indefinitely.

I'm sharing these oversimplified comparisons to point out the importance of marriage - it's so much more than a frilly white dress and penguin suits. If you're in the midst of planning your wedding, I want you to remember that it's the marriage that matters. Your wedding is just the start of the memories that will fill your marriage. If you've already had your wedding and it didn't go perfectly (because when do they ever?), I want you to remember that it's the marriage that matters the most.

Simply put:

A wedding is a plan for one day of your life. A marriage is a plan for the rest of your life.


  1. So very true! Ah, I love marriage. <3

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