Wednesday, June 6, 2018

From Single Mama to Married Life

I love bringing you stories from others. I find that reading stories from others is a great way to learn and grow. Today, I'm excited to share a story from Jessica Halvorsen of XXX. She's sharing her story of how she went from single mom to happily married.



Plans tend to run off course. Anyone who has tried to plan their lives would probably agree. If you are one of the lucky ones who manages to outline and have everything fall into place, then I envy you.

The Scoop 

I had been accepted to The Musician's Institute in California, getting details in order to move down there, preparing scholarships, etc. when I found out my serious boyfriend and I were pregnant.

My priorities shifted as I was aware how expensive that area of California was and a few months into the pregnancy I discovered infidelity. The first year with my first, my son, I lived with my mom and step dad and saved up for a van, an apartment with a garage, and taking online courses to get my accounting degree. It may not have been the road I paved in my mind, but the fork took me in a pretty amazing direction anyway.

The Single Mama 

Let me just say, I rocked this life. I was very organized, had great friends, family support, and was creating great memories for my son. Sure, we had bumps to manage, but I'm a pretty determined and stubborn gal.

When my son was two, I “met” my now husband on zoosk while taking a homework break. Neither of us had a paid account, so you could only send and receive one message. I sent my number for him to text if he wanted to get to know each other better. The rest, as they say, is history.

The Married Life 

We moved to live with Kyle, my now husband, when my son was 2.5 years old. I asked him if he was suuurreee and if he knew what he was getting into. He proposed after about two, almost three, months of living together. And three months after getting married, he adopted my son.

We have now been married for nearly four years now and there are still days I work on my mindset. Again, I was very particular and organized. My husband, not so much. Finding balance has taken time, but it helps that we both are in this for the long haul and try to be pretty logical.

 He handles my crazy very well. Also, he has taught me a lot about being spontaneous and letting some of my OCD tendencies go for the sake of sanity and time with the family. This may not have been my original vision, but I can truly say I'm grateful for the turn my life took.

About the Author

I am a thirty-something mom. With two degrees under my belt and a virtual assistant business, I find mommy-hood to be the most challenging yet rewarding part of my life. Mistakes will be made, failures will happen, but why not accept those flaws, do your best, love with all you have, and have as much fun as you can along the way? Follow alongside my family and me at Family, Fun, and Flaws.





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